random thoughts of the day :P

Ello Govena!

So today my husband and I signed up to do the "color run" in cincinatti. I love that he decided to do it with me, he has been such a motivatior and supportive when it comes to my fitness so I couldn't think of anyone better to do the color run with me than him :) ( fingers crossed he doesnt leave for OCS before the run ) I guess I should start preparing eh? I've totally been slacking since my husband has been home, the gym hasnt seen me not even 1 time the past 2-3 weeks, sad i know lol I did go for a run around the neighborhood... the next day my legs felt like someone took them off and beat the shit out of me with them and then stuck them back on me, yeah I'm THAT out of shape.. get it together chancey! Since my hubby starts back work on Monday I've decided my vacation is over too, back to clean eatting and working out daily, and since at my new job at the nursing home I'll be working 5am-10am there is no excuse as to why I'm not hitting the gym. I'll be taking this fitness ish pretty seriously since we ARE going on vaca in about a month and I'd hate to look like a whale that washed up on the beach, not a good look. Starting Monday I think at the end of every blog I'm going to post my workouts, meals etc for the day then when I get to where I want to be Ill post before and after pictures, oh LAWD!

I'm signing the boys up for soccer the end of this month, they'll be playing at the YMCA near my house and I think I may sign up to be the. dun dun dun...COAH! I've played soccer most of my life, literally since age 3 til age 16 then I got pregnant and I'm sure it wouldn't be a good look running down the field with a belly twice the size of some of the stick bitches that were in high school lol so I'm sure I'd LOVE playing coach for a while, besides running around with the little rugrats could help keep my fat ass in a little better shape lol

Let me tell yall what my husband did last night! We live about 2.5 miles from Kroger (our grocery store) it was about 9:30pm and about 30 degrees outside he decides since OCS is comming up and he wants to stay in shape he is going to RUN to Kroger to rent a movie from the red box -__- lol I swear if that isn't dedication idk what is. We watched the movie Savages, it was just kind of a weird movie, every 30 min my husband and I whisper.. DA FUQ?! lol


Guess what I get to do tomorrow.... register Ayden for Kindergarten :( NOOOO! It seriously makes me so sad! but also very proud! He is in pre-k now and his teachers pulled me aside and told me they are happy we moved because the age cut off date was Aug 1st for that school district and his birthday is Aug 27th but the school district we are in now has their age cut off at sept 1st and his teachers said if he had to come back to Pre-k another year they wouldn't know what to do with him because he is so smart, my heart fluttered a bit and a proud grin grew across my face :D He has always been "advanced" for his age and I guess it just doesn't stop! lol speaking of school, it's time for me to go pick up my little handsome boys then i GUESS I could go for a run... joy!

Have a happy THIRSTY THURSDAY BITCHES! get wastey pants for me!

My Blog Followers!

I'm going to start something new for Friday's. I'm naming it Friendly Friday and I want you all to send questions my way regarding ANYTHING you want. examples: tips for deployment, parenting, fitness etc. Sometimes writting about what I do everyday gets a little boring lol and I'd love to help other military spouses, not even that, I'd just love to help anyone in general or answer any questions. You can send your questoins, via facebook message or you can write your question in the comment section of the blog post, I'll type the questions and my answers on every friday blog, If I don't recieve any questions ill just continue with my typical blogging :)

p.s. any questions asked I will keep your name private

Wordless Wednesday and a Bake sesh!

I pretty much suck at "Wordless Wednesday" all I can do is make my post "short" lol I'll get better at it.. pinky promise.

I guess today I'm just going to mainly share pictures and a new recipe that I absolutely love, the kids and my husband are pretty obsessed as well.

so first let me share my new recipe with yall. It's a 3 ingredient peanut butter cookie! pretty orgasmic if you ask me.. well not really.. i just love that I only need 3 ingredients.. being cheap for the win! :P

all you need is
1 cup of peanut butter
1 cup of sugar
1 egg
after mixing it together roll teasopoon size balls (hehe, the child in me laughs at the word "balls") and place on cookie sheet. If you want the "peanut butter cookie" look just take your fork and press lines across the top. Then bake for 12 min at 350 degrees, let cool for 5 min before taking then off the pan or else they'll crumble and WAA LAA!!

 

 

 

 

Now on to my daughter :)

While daddy was doing homework and taking tests I decided to have some mommy daughter time with Aubree. I took her to her room and painted her little baby toes, then we dressed her up in a cute spring sheer blouse and put her hair in a bun. You could tell she felt so beautiful because she kept saying PRIIPYY! (pretty in aubree language) I swear she is the biggest little DIVA! such a girly girl! and I love every minute of it! She has a leopard stuffed animal she is obsessed with and she also totes around her "sweat pea" lotion her daddy got her a week ago, its the cutest thing ever! another thing she is obsessed with is brushing her teeth, I guess I can't be mad at that lol so during our little time together I went picture crazy. I guess I can share a few :P

 

Adorable right?!

 

I guess I sorta failed at this "wordless Wednesday" but maybe next week I'll contain myself lol I'll try not to have a pretty amazing day so that way I wont have shit to say next Wednesday haha

 

off to watch a movie with hubby yet again! lol it seriously has become and every night thing! toinght is the movie Zero Dark Thirthy and I'm beyond excited to see how they killed Osama! lol goodnight!

 

 

 

Monday/Tuesday

So I couldn't blog last night because I was too busy getting wastey pants with my husband haha

Drunk people problems!

We had movie night last night, first with the kids, we made popcorn and watched Wreck It Ralph for the millionth and one time hah I don't mind though because I may or may not love that movie more than the kids do, guilty. Then after they went to bed hubby and I made some strawberry daquiris and watched Argo.. pretty effing good movie I might add.

MOVIEEEE

 Im pretty freaking tired today and didn't want to get out of bed BUT hubby let me sleep til noon yesterday then let me take a 4 hour nap! Have I mentioned I have the BEST husband ever? :P So I got my lazy ass up and made him a nice breakfast, kuddos for me! lol

 

Today is going to be another torture day for me because I've gotta get back to painting booooo! I mean cant really do much anywho since Ohio decides it's best to snow for spring -.-

                                       MY BACKYARD IS WINTER WONDERLAND!

I seriously cannot wait for it to warm up and ACTUALLY feel like spring! especially because the kids and I are starting a ginormous garden this year. We already have the layout set up in the backyard, I'm excited to not have to spend shit loads of money at the grocery store because we will be growing pretty much everything in our yard lol. One thing I'm most excited about is our pumpkins we are growing, the kids are going to love watching their pumpkins grow then being able to pick them and carve them for halloween! Another project we are starting on in the backyard is an inground firepit! I found some amazing ideas off pintrest (of course) we have a Menards pretty close to us so we can get everything we need pretty cheap! Have I told yall how much I LOVE owning my own house?! lol it seriously is the best because I can do whatever the heck I want. Sucks once we finish remodeling and doing ish we like to the house we are going to have to turn around and rent it out. Military life right?

 

 

I know this was short but time for me to get the boys off to school then hubby and I are going to spend the day out with our little princess :) Stay tuned for pictures of the painted rooms, I should hopefully be done by the end of the week.

 

p.s. exactly 1 month til my husbands Officer Board! yip yip yippeee!

 

 

Sunday FUNday

I know I know, I forgot to post the past couple of days, but you'll see why REAL soon :D I've been painting my ass off! I'm the most excited to do my bedroom but that its going to be the last room I do only because it requires a little more detail and it's more time consuming. So far I've gotten the kids bathroom painted the brightest green you'd ever seen lol all that needs to be done is hang the cabinet on the wall over the toilet and paint the wooden letters that say "WaSh YoUr HaNdS" in navy blue!

                                         I LOVE the Kate Spade shower curtain we got too!

 Aubree's room is almost painted we did a HOT pink and added silver sparkle, it seriously is so stinkin adorable with the glitter in it. I painted the master bath a bright teal/blue. I'm painting our bedroom walls grey and on one wall I'm doing bold stripes, the same teal/blue as the bathroom, grey and white SO CUTE! as you can tell our bedroom colors are black white and teal. Tomorrow I'm finally getting to the boys room and painting it blue (of course lol) then I'll finally be done painting, staining the kitchen cabinets is next WHOO HOO! While we were at Bed Bath and Beyond we picked up THE cutest placemats for the table, they are multi-color bamboo and match perfect with our kitchen, couldn't beat the price either! $1.30 per mat!

CUTE EH?

 

One thing is for freaking sure, no need to go to the gym if you're going to paint cuz that alone is a work out, since I'm so short I'm basically doing calf raises and then always using my arms to paint I swear my whole body is sore! Thank goodness I have the most amazing husband ever, since he sucks at painting and I'm doing it alone lol he has been giving me full body massages, AHHHH! not only that he went and bought 30 chocolate chip cookies for me to bake! HEAVEN! splurging is ok right? I swear since my husband has been home I've gained so much weight lol I call it my HAPPY FAT because dieting, eatting right and hitting the gym is the last thing on my mind when my husband just got home from deployment lol.

 

SPRING IS HERE SPRING IS HERE.. yeah effing right! not in Ohio!! First sunday in spring and it decides to do what you ask? SNOW! booooo! and it's supposed to snow the next 3-4 days.

a little backyard action

 

 Lord how I'm ready for our vacations. NC, VA BEACH and possibly a cruise is FO SHO calling our names!

 

Well I guess I should go eat my emotions and devour those chocolate chip cookies MUAHAHA! and kick my husband off the living room t.v im sick of wacthing basketball I need to watch my girly shows haha. All I know is whatever I watch that plate of cookies WILL be on my lap :P

 

Goodnight Ya'll

Thursday Shmursday

leme just say i LOVE the free time off my husband got after his deployment 14 days of QT with my baybeh! Today we went to a mexican place for lunch call El Torro and ermahgerd! It tastes just like my favorite mexican place in NC called El Cerros. The chicken with shrimp covered in queso with rice and beans on the side is pretty much the most ballin-est shit EVER! (in my dave chappelle voice)

                                           BE JEALOUS BE VERY VERY JEALOUS! :P

After getting our fat kid on we went and bought some new pretties for the house. One of my most favorite things to do is buy new ish we dont need for the house lol I seriously will remodel, redecorate and redo every room in the house about 3 times a year, sad I know, my husband is JUST as guilty haha. I cant wait to start remodeling the kitchen and share before and after pictures with you all! 2 more weeks! *que happy dance*

So I'm just getting used to my husband being home and being able to sleep at night (cant sleep without him) and spending time with him and now I have to think about saying " see you later " again for 8 months in june/july time frame :( thanks army sheesh! but it's worth it, Im extremely proud of my husband.

 One thing I want to point out is, when I say I'm a "proud military wife" that doesn't mean proud of MYSELF It means I'm proud of my husband, he is 23 years old has his associates, bachelors and working on his masters degree graduated each with honers, got airman of the year, quarter, airman of like 4 diff bases, has a gazillion trophies to prove it and is NOW going officer. What is there NOT to be proud of? OF COURSE I'll call myself a proud military wife I'm BEYOND proud of my huband. *end rant*

on the bright side where ever we get stationed (fingers crossed for NC) hubby said we can buy ANY house we want and with my husbands extravagant taste he is already saying it HAS to be basically ginormous which means ill be dying for a maid haha not only that he HAS to buy a freaking BMW (if he doesnt get his eVo).. mo money mo problems! lol BUT that just means MORE DECORATING AND HOUSE PRETTIES! bahah

Well it's movie night with hubby, nothing like quality time when the rugrats fall asleep :)

Wordless Wednesday

Today has been a pretty awesome day! I know it's "wordless Wednesday" So Ill make this short then I promise I'll shut up for the night :)
So this morning I went for an interview at a nursing home and got hired on the spot, HELL YEAH! I'm so excited because I love the elderly so what better job than to wipe their asses eh? haha The amazing husband I have took me and the kids out for dinner at red lobster, leme just say, Red Lobster NEVER lets me down!

So you know how in the previous blog I told yall about how "someone" slandered me on FB, well my hubby and I have been getting some giggles in texting this person acting like my husband wanted to get some "top secret info about me" just to see how far this person would go, to see how desperate this person was. Now that we got our giggles out we decided to just let it ride out. Let me share something my husband posted earlier today.

I love that he said "god is who my family is judged by" because that couldnt be any truer! WHO CARES what others say or think about you, who are they to judge? especially when they aren't saints themselves.

Well tonight my husband and I are doing what any awesome married couple would do! getting drunk by our lonesomes, watching basketball and folding laundry!! WHOO HOOO!! lol

NIGHT YALL!

Madness Monday?

So let me get things straight before I go any further with this blog. I havn't been the perfect wife, my husband has been perfect either, but isnt love supposed to be about loving eachother imperfections and all? We have both made some poor decisions but we've also been together since age 15 (babies) it's bound to happen, not saying its right in any way shape or form, and I'm def not making any excuses. Our whole marriage I have been open and honest about our relationship, the world has been through and seen our break ups and make ups and I dont regret that one bit, because everyone can see that through the WORST times we have love strong enough to pull it back together, ALWAYS! We are young, dumb but in love. Like I said in a previous post, this past deployment has been by far one of the hardest. Luckily my husband and I are strong fighters for our marriage, there are times we just want to give up so bad but we sit back and remember why we married eachother in the first place. I love that man no doubt about it, do I feel like punching him in his throat at times HECK YES! but my love for him will only grow stronger. Today I was judged, ridiculed, teasted, bullied etc because of my mistakes in my marriage, by someone who i "trusted" (big mistake eh?) at the time to confide in, a message about me was posted all over Facebook for everyone to see and comment about. I'm the type of person who could care less what is being said about me, and I really don't, but it just makes me think, what the hell are we teaching our kids? We as parents are rolemodels for our children, it is SOO important for our kids to understand ALL types of bullying. "Bullies Behind A Keyboard Are Still Bullies." It doesn't matter if you're pissed, hate someone etc you never know what someone is going through. All it takes is that ONE time for someone to be bullied before they kill themselves. I've seen it on the internet, TV etc about all these young kids and teenagers commiting suicide over bullies. How would you feel if YOUR child was being bullied? It would eat you up inside right? So why as an adult, a parent, would you yourself stoop so low as to bully someone, what example are you setting for your children?

On a brighter note, I GOT A NEW FREAKING CAR TODAY!! WHOO HOOO I've been dying to get my hands on a ford edge for about a good 4 years now and I finally did! a 2010 ford edge SEL 

can i get a HELL YEAH! I'm so in love with it! I can change the cupholder and front and rear FLOOR lights to diff colors 

pink, red, blue, green, yellow, and white! its so awesome driving at night and the inside of my car is PINK! it also talks to me so i can tell it what to do (play the radio, sirus radio, call someone etc), the ass warmers are a nice touch, OH and so is the automatic rear door! lol can you tell im pretty much in love!

Well time to get my cuddle on with my handsome husband!

About Me!

Well... since my FIRST blog post decided to delete itsself leme take you back to the beginning lol

I am 22 years young, I married my highschool sweet heart at the age of 17. cray cray! Before that even happend we started dating at age 15 then at 16 my now husband Steven impregnanted me with one handsome little sperm, Ayden now age 4.Two months later he leaves for airforce basic training and tech school, merp :( then what do you know, the day he graduates and I'm there to support him he impregnantes me with yet ANOTHER handsome sperm, Aizaiah now age 3.

So here I am 17 years old with a 3 month old and pregnant with another. A few months later we moved to wonderful Ohio    -__- after 4 months of being here I finally deliver our second son, and lucky us 6 hours later my husband deploys to afghanistan, fun right? 18 years old at this point with two kids and new to ohio with no freaking husband. Luckily I became really good friends with my neighbors and they totally were the reasons I made it through the deployment. A year and a half later can you guess what happens? I bet you can!! HA pregnant again! This time with a little princess, Aubree now 17 months.

 So my vagina has gone through all it wanted too go through and my husband decided to fix thebabycarrier. So 9 months after my daughter was born my husband deploys again. This was by far thehardest deployment we have gone through! BUT we made it! :) While he was gone I bought us a house! YIPPEE!! now he is home, I have my family back together and my life is back to perfection!

Officer wife?

Hey y'all!
so today my husband was told his Army Officer board is coming up in a few days and has basically been guaranteed a spot in OCS! WHOO HOOO! The sucky part is he JUST got home literally 1 week ago from an 8 month deployment and he now is leaving again for almost 2 years in July. As hard as my decision was to stay here in Ohio rather than Georgia where his OCS is taking place I have to do what's best for the family. My oldest son Ayden will be in kindergarten at the time so I'd hate to have to take him out to move to Georgia to only have to pack up and move again to where ever they station us, not only that but we recently bought a house (yes yes BOUGHT!) in October (which by the way we are totally stoked about) I would have to sell or rent out the house, so it's just best me and the kids stay here. One thing I'm pretty excited about is remodeling the house!! I've already decided to stain all cabinets in the house, frame the mirrors in the bathrooms, paint the countertops in the master bath, we are getting stainless steel appliances for the kitchen and new countertops! I have a lot on my plate but as spongebob would say I'M READY IM READY! atleast I'll have something other than my three rugrats to keep me busy while my other half is away.

As much as I enjoy being a military spouse, there are some annoying things about it, one being OTHER spouses. It's rare that you find genuine friends when you move from base to base, I was lucky enugh to meet some amazing ladies and become best friends with them.

3 of my neighbors who are also still very good friends (now living at different bases) actually watched my give birth to my second son! gross right!? lol but I'm so thankful for them because 6 hours after having my second son at the age of 18 my husband deployed to afghanistan.. boooooo!! I've also been pretty unlucky too, I've made the mistake of trusting ladies and befriending ladies who had the worst intentions for myself, this isnt rare it happens often when dealing with other military spouses. Thankfully I easily cut the negative nacys out of my life and everything has been PERFECT since! you live and you learn eh?

Well my husband decided to pass out during our NCIS date tonight lol so I guess I shall go cuddle him while he sleeps, or maybe ill do a little payback and snap some pics of him while he is sleeping like he did me? hahah I'm totally going with that plan! GNITE! :)